Expressing your feelings might be difficult for some. But what if you actually have to convey to your special someone the affections you have been holding in your heart for them? Well, this is even more difficult. You have probably tried to write a love poem before only to have failed many times and waste loads of paper because of your many failed attempts. It is understandable because it is really difficult to find the words that will perfectly convey how you feel towards the other person.

There is a saying that action speaks louder than words but sometimes, just showing it or saying the words is not enough. You need a mix of the two so that your special someone will never doubt the affections you have for him/her. Yes, a love poem is a bit old-fashioned but if it is the best way you can do to convey the feelings you have then why not chalk up the embarrassment of writing one? A sincere and well-thought love poem will surely brighten your special someone's day just like this love poem from Tony Harrison:

Long Distance II

Though my mother was already two years dead

Dad kept her slippers warming by the gas,

put hot water bottles her side of the bed

and still went to renew her transport pass.

You couldn’t just drop in. You had to phone.

He’d put you off an hour to give him time

to clear away her things and look alone

as though his still raw love were such a crime.

He couldn’t risk my blight of disbelief

though sure that very soon he’d hear her key

scrape in the rusted lock and end his grief.

He knew she’d just popped out to get the tea.

I believe life ends with death, and that is all.

You haven’t both gone shopping; just the same,

in my new black leather phone book there’s your name

and the disconnected number I still call.

So, here are some tips in how you can write the perfect love poem. Take note of each one listed here and use them to write a love poem for your special someone.

Tips on Writing a Love Poem

• Think about your firsts. Before going to the feelings you are feeling, focus first on the first things you have done together. What happened when you first met him/her? Was it love at first sight? Did you like him/her immediately or did you actually hate him/her when you first met? Where did you meet? Did you have your first date? If yes, then what did the two of you do? When did you two first kissed? Remembering these things and putting them into your love poem might prove to your special someone how much you value him/her that you actually remember even the things that have probably happened a long time ago.
• Compare your life with him/her on it to your life without him/her. If you have a special someone, it is pretty given that he/she had a big impact on your life. Write down the things that have changed when he/she entered your life. For example, if you have been going through tough times when you first met, maybe you can write down how he/she made you smile or made your life brighter. These things will surely convey to your special someone how he/she changed your life for the better.

• Write the memories you had together that left a big impression to you. This can be about the first time you have kissed or when you just looked at each other's eyes while your friends are being rowdy. Writing down these little things from the past will surely make your loved one feel special.
• Now, focus on the feelings that you are feeling towards your special someone. This step might prove to be difficult but start with the things running through your mind when you look at your special person. Then, think about all the emotions you have felt during the moments you have listed before. Next, focus on the feelings you are feeling about you spending your future with him/her.
• Eliminate some out. Before this step, you have probably written so many things already. Once you have written everything down, read through them and erase some things that you will probably not need because your special someone might not like reading 5-10 pages of love poem so, if possible, erase some of the things that you deem unnecessary.
• Write your love poem but don't worry about the tone or pattern. When writing your love poem, it should reflect your character. Don’t concentrate on copying other people's style, instead, focus on expressing the real you as well as the true feelings you have for your special someone.
• Spread the love. Let your special someone read your love poem and you can also post it on some sites to spread the love you are feeling for your special someone.

Writing a love poem might really pose as a challenge for some but hopefully, with the tips listed above; anyone who is having a hard time creating a love poem will be helped. It is always important to remember that writing a love poem is all about expressing your warm feelings rather than showing off your talents in grammar or poem-writing.